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Learning to Be a Leader

If you are one of our active readers, you may already know how Jesuit education has the power to transform not only one life, but many. At the beginning of this new year, we are proud to feature a young student whose journey reflects this transformation.

Meet Grace Nelvia Borges, 16 years old, a student of Colégio Santo Inácio de Loyola (CSIL) – Kasait, Liquiça. Though still young, Grace shows clear signs of being born to lead. She joined CSIL three years ago at the age of 13 and, this year, achieved an outstanding milestone by graduating as valedictorian in junior high school. She now continues her journey at CSIL as a senior high school student.

For Grace, CSIL is more than a school—it is a place of life growth. It has shaped her not only intellectually, but also spiritually, helping her to grow in character and self-awareness.

“When I first stepped into this school, I felt very insecure because I came from a municipality, unlike many of my friends from Dili. I thought they were smarter than me and knew more about this place,” Grace recalled.

Reflecting on her first year at CSIL, she shared that it took time to truly feel connected.

“It took about three months, or one semester, for me to become close with my classmates. During that time, we shared joys and struggles, and we helped shape each other to become better young people.”

Despite her initial fears, Grace quickly earned the trust of her classmates.

“When my classmates started coming to me—asking for help with their studies, sharing their struggles, I tried to help them, give solutions, and motivate them so they wouldn’t feel alone.”

These moments marked the beginning of Grace’s meaningful journey at CSIL—one rooted in gratitude, friendship, and hope.

“I have friends who always support each other—not just one or two, but everyone in my class.”

As she transitions to senior high school, Grace acknowledges that some of her former classmates are no longer continuing at CSIL. While this is difficult, she looks to the future with optimism.

“I know I will meet new friends. I hope I can help them have an amazing year together. For new students starting their journey at Loyola, I want to support them in understanding the environment, formation, and school system so we can grow and learn together.”

Grace expressed deep gratitude for being chosen to study at CSIL and for her parents’ encouragement—especially during the early days when leaving home was difficult.

“I cried because I was still a child, and it was my first time being far from my family. But my mother explained how this school had helped many people. I believed that decision truly transformed me—not only intellectually, but also to become a better Christian.”

Among the many activities and programs at CSIL, Grace highlighted the daily Ignatian Examen and recollections as the most impactful.

“Through the daily Examen of Conscience and participating in daily Mass—especially since I stay in a dormitory with Religious Sisters—I have come to understand myself more deeply.”

Grace’s academic achievements have also made her parents incredibly proud.

“During my interview to continue senior high school at Loyola, my parents were present. My mother was very surprised because she knows how shy I used to be. Seeing me confidently answer questions and pass with a high ranking made her cry. She believed that my experiences here had truly transformed me.”

Grace also emphasized the importance of Cura Personalis, which she experiences daily through the care shown by teachers and shared among students.

Looking ahead, Grace hopes to maintain her academic excellence while remaining grounded.

“I don’t focus on competing with others. I focus on myself and giving my best effort. We can overcome struggles together, and we should not be afraid to feel afraid, to cry, or to be angry—because this school is a place where we can express ourselves.”

Grace’s story is a powerful testimony of how a supportive environment, dedicated teachers, strong friendships, and Jesuit values can help a young person grow into a confident leader—ready to serve others and the world.


Written by:
Iriana Soares, ETR Communications Officer